tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post5236651871342957794..comments2023-09-25T06:38:06.292-04:00Comments on Book Faery: To Refrain, or not to Refrain?Tori [Book Faery]http://www.blogger.com/profile/10814935817409616951noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-61340725923824862512010-12-26T20:31:27.187-05:002010-12-26T20:31:27.187-05:00Girl you know i commend you on being honest, your ...Girl you know i commend you on being honest, your one of the bloggers who reminds me why it's so important to do negative reviews, i battle very rarely but have had days like you are having today but seriously my negative reviews are just as important to me as the positive if not more because i have to challenge myself each time, the day i tell myself i am going to stop writing negative reviews, i will stop blogging, don't let anything stop you from remaining true to yourself, if that means we have to give each other a reminder here and there then so be it :)Blueicegal ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/09146180332261903579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-13257326664820748322010-12-20T23:23:26.230-05:002010-12-20T23:23:26.230-05:00Thank you Melina! I hope I'm not too crass in...Thank you Melina! I hope I'm not too crass in them sometimes lol.<br /><br /><br />Smash, ain't that the truth? I'm starting to think that most authors won't even realize this blog and my potential author persona are the same person lol.<br /><br /><br />Sharon, I'm flattered that I'm one of the 16! :) I usually contact an author when they personally ask me to review a book. Most book I review now are either from BEA or the publisher. And any books that I don't want to keep are usually given away so that another can appreciate them... so it's not like the books don't get whored around ;)Tori [Book Faery]https://www.blogger.com/profile/10814935817409616951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-91929882554074229562010-12-20T11:02:35.250-05:002010-12-20T11:02:35.250-05:00I am a reader and I follow about 16 review blogs (...I am a reader and I follow about 16 review blogs (including yours). Negative reviews are fine, but I don't want to read a review that tears the author or book to shreds. There is no need to be mean. I prefer the "I didn't like this book because..." approach. Just because one person doesn't like a book doesn't mean another won't. That is why I read lots of different reviews of a book. And if no one liked it, I will move it down my TBR list, but not off. <br />If an author sent me a book to review and I thought it was just awful, I would privately email the author and give them an honest, but not mean opinion. Then post "I didn't like this book because..." . <br />I don't envy you bloggers, but I appreciate what you do. Keep up the great work and thanks!Sharon S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15818018833243601832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-73112355537952906732010-12-19T20:56:00.480-05:002010-12-19T20:56:00.480-05:00Being honest and polite is the way to go. I don...Being honest and polite is the way to go. I don't think bashing authors is professional. Keep doing what you're doing. Stating what didn't work for you and why. It's the best way, and honestly, if an author can't handle professional criticism, DAMN, did they ever pick the wrong profession!Smash Attack Ashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16459323734201391878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-32784055063902855782010-12-19T20:14:35.498-05:002010-12-19T20:14:35.498-05:00I think you should keep doing things the way you h...I think you should keep doing things the way you have. I love your reviews because they are so honest. You aren't being mean because you give reasons for why you felt the way you did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-53595472542495283192010-12-19T19:38:10.569-05:002010-12-19T19:38:10.569-05:00Thanks Moirae! :)
I generally am within the 2-4 c...Thanks Moirae! :)<br /><br />I generally am within the 2-4 category as of late. 1 = DNF and 5 = blew my mind. Too bad there aren't a lot of books that have blown my mind recently.Tori [Book Faery]https://www.blogger.com/profile/10814935817409616951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-56087304906969922232010-12-19T17:34:52.198-05:002010-12-19T17:34:52.198-05:00I am glad you decided to keep posting them all.
...I am glad you decided to keep posting them all. <br /><br />I think that all opinions are legit. What I like about your reviews is like you said, you say what works and what doesn't. You give an honest opinion without being rude, I've never seen a negative review in which you personally attack an author. Which is great, I hate it when I see a review that is rude and attacks the author on a personal level. More then just I don't like the story because of AB&C.<br /><br />When I am thinking of reading a book, I hold more in the 2-4 star reviews then the 1 or 5. I also didn't like Twilight and I hate how many reviews just say "Best book ever!" or "piece of crap".<br /><br />But yeah, I am glad you are going to post all reviews. <br /><br />Don't worry about announcing the giveaway winners, you're busy take your time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07114391138041938236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-78592590910321885282010-12-19T16:32:59.267-05:002010-12-19T16:32:59.267-05:00John, author friendships are nice. Not worried ab...John, author friendships are nice. Not worried about that so much as what would happen if my negative reviews would wind up biting me in the ass later on down the line if I got pubbed.<br /><br /><br />Cade, I've read so many negative reviews that have encouraged me to buy a new book too! Whenever I check out new books I read the negative reviews because I think they give a fairer description of what the reading experience is actually like.<br /><br />And also, thanks for telling me you enjoy mine. I'm glad to hear that!<br /><br /><br />Karen, I could still tell you which books did and didn't work for me :) I agree though, I think authors do need to change and grow thicker skins. So long as the review does not attack them, who cares? I know the negative reviews hurt, but in the end, a review is a review and it's getting your book some much needed attention in the blogging community.<br /><br />On the same note, I think the bloggers who bash and bash and bash do deserve what they get :X<br /><br /><br />Hey Megan, thanks for stopping by. I agree with you: I do not read ANY author reviews exactly for that reason. In fact, if I were to ever get published, I would probably stop reviewing in general because I don't want to A) come off as unreliable to readers; B) ostracize myself amongst the author community.<br /><br />Thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking. Reviews are just opinions. I just wish some authors didn't take reviews SO personally.<br /><br /><br /><br />All of these comments, the texts, and tweets I've received have been great so far and made me feel a bit better. Thank you so much everyone!Tori [Book Faery]https://www.blogger.com/profile/10814935817409616951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-52740156744901671712010-12-19T16:26:40.562-05:002010-12-19T16:26:40.562-05:00There's an important distinction between an au...There's an important distinction between an author and a reviewer. While I respect the opinion of published authors, I tend to take it with a larger grain of salt than I do a reviewer's opinion because of exactly what you described - I have to wonder how much of it is political.<br /><br />At the end of the day, a review is just someone's opinion. If they backed up the negativity with reasons and examples and were not overtly snarky about it, then I say, the review was well worth reading. Sugar coating a review or not posting a review for fear of what the author might think (no matter what your job title is) is cheating yourself and your readers out of something. Be nice, be fair, but if you don't like something say so. After all, it's just an opinion (just one opinion) and I'm entitled not to agree with it (both as a writer and a reader).<br /><br />Such a tough topic though, especially for aspiring authors.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-67706930329822668962010-12-19T16:13:07.817-05:002010-12-19T16:13:07.817-05:00As an aspiring author I could see how you would be...As an aspiring author I could see how you would be worried about future contacts.<br />In general I would still read your blog if you posted good reviews only but I would be bummed out because I've come to trust your opinion and there would be a whole list of books that I would waste money on & end up reading and not enjoying because I didn't have your input or warning.<br />But like the previous commenter, I some times read a book BEACAUSE of the negative review.<br />I think most authors (not all) get it and deal with it just fine as long as you are fair with your review.<br />The publishing/promotional landscape has changed and authors & bloggers are just going to have to stop being so sensitive. I don't think an author would comment if a major publication criticized their book. I think bloggers are easier to go after. On the other hand bloggers are throwing their opinion out there and have to be open to some hits also. As long as it's all honest and constructive I say grow a thick skin and be honest.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13958940283330319507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-65548416178021829362010-12-19T15:50:31.620-05:002010-12-19T15:50:31.620-05:00I personally love reading negative reviews because...I personally love reading negative reviews because they tend to be more informative about the book. I've actually purchased several books based on 1-3 star reviews because I find that they are less OMG LUV LUV LUV THIS then the good reviews.<br /><br />I wouldn't stop reading your blog if you stopped posting negative reviews, but I <i>do</i> enjoy them a lot.Cadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00141800540758028311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7577217529876781375.post-87951422008466290302010-12-19T15:22:32.493-05:002010-12-19T15:22:32.493-05:00I think you answered your own question. You only ...I think you answered your own question. You only search for the 1-3 star reviews to read. Why would you stop doing that? Author friendships are nice, but there are authors that will be friends with you even if there book(s) aren't for you. If an author is going to care more about getting a positive reaction than getting an honest one, it's not worth it. <br /><br />I'm not saying that all authors that get upset over a negative review are being overdramatic, though. My view is that if you write good reviews that, for all intents and purposes, are polite and try and suggest an audience for the book that may like it, you shouldn't worry about it. <br /><br />For instance, I gave Sophie Jordan's Firelight a 3.5 review. I enjoyed it but had a few issues that, to me, would have spelled 'death' of being able to talk to her. Yet she said I got what she wanted to do with things and was polite about it. I also had that regarding Janni Simner's Thief Eyes. The book didn't work for me, but the author didn't hold it against me. You'll find that the authors that really want to be friends with you will understand that not every book works for every person. :)<br /><br />Just my two cents. Hope it helped! And please don't stop reviewing negative books. Trust me, it helps a lot more in some cases.John The Bookwormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15726970893781715376noreply@blogger.com